>> Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Idk if I completly agree with this quote.
I think for a long period of time, yes it does make the heart grow fonder.
But for this day and age , absence for a few days, sometimes drives people in love CRAZY.
I can sympathize with that. Just being able to text or call each other is like a tease; what you want it RIGHT THERE yet you can't feel it. Its more annoying than "fond".
My boyfriend and I stay together for 3 days, apart for 4.
Those 4 days we bicker and everything annoys us, our families, the smell of the shampoo, yadayada.
Sometimes people, like my parents or myself and my beau, need each other.
You could be negative and say "Oh your co-dependent and thats not healthy" but... I dont believe that. If the feeling is mutual and that person doesnt want to be away from you any more than you dont want to feel them close to you then...whats so wrong about that?
If its love , if your are soul mates, there is no need for absence. None at all.